Thanks for sharing your adventure. I suspect you're not getting many comments because the commiseration factor is low. Not many owners have had steering gear problems. It's surprising your gearbox was leaking at only 52K miles. I had to put new seals and bearings in the Saginaw 808 on my pickup last month but it's 30 years old with 327K miles on it...
Couple tips for next time:
The metallurgy of those cheap chinese Harbor Freight pullers isn't the best so when you try to put several hundred ft-lbs of torque on them the claws will break. Advance Auto, Auto Zone, etc. will loan you a high quality pitman arm puller for free. (and their rebuild kits are priced as good or better than those on ebay but you don't have to pay shipping) Squirt some penetrating oil on the sector shaft above the pitman arm a day ahead of time, put the rattle gun to the puller and that pitman arm WILL come off in a matter of seconds without all that beating and banging.
Clear packing tape makes a good protector when installing seals on splined shafts. It's thin, strong and slick.