Sorry havent read whole post or all of them but... I have had this problem as well. I went in to get water pump replaced and both radiator hoses replaced and well leak gone. Course now its back and i need to take back in to have them check again because i am sure waterpump seal went bad again because leaking from same place. Dont ask me what that has to do with the leaking because I dunno just what mechanic said when he had it all replaced.
Course I think mine went bad because as my avatar shows I got stuck in the mud for awhileGL Bart adn i will let you know when I take it back to shop in a week or so