For the lights,
I have pictures at home for the KCs. They are slimlights (metal bodies), and they manage to sit nicely on the grill, they do not protrude past the front of the bumper.
I drilled mounting holes as close to the fangs as the depth of the lights would allow (slimlights don't require much rear clearance). I removed the fang covers and mounted the lights. I backed up the plastic grill with 16ga. stainless plates, formed to the contour of the grill.
They jiggle a little bit on washboard, but no more than the rest of the vehicle.
For the wheels,
Those 6 spoke bronze TE37s were the inspiration for this. I couldn't find/afford the Volks.
I picked these up on eBay for $200. Plus @$50 in paint and materials.
I was considering making these the winter wheels for the Titan -it's black as well, and looks great with the bronze.