If you go to the members list you would see that if you click on their profile it haas a couple of features like what is their aol and instant messanger name. or you could simply send them a private message asking them which IM they use. I'm like Moncha I have use they same ones. Aol=TDNYBB & TDAWGVX, Yahoo=TDAWGVX and ICQ=174994774 Feel free to IM me when ever I am usually on all the time.