Do you do that professionaly? That was very well written. You seemed to find all of the annoying things about the vx right off the bat. I think I'll point people to this post from now on when they start asking if they should buy one.
I've found that I can reach the dials that adjust the seat on the side by the center console easier than I can the side by the door.
The back seat does have good room, but it is a pain to get back there. Someone makes a modification for the passenger seat that allows easier access to the back.
You can get a hitch from Tone for pulling your boat. Pulling 2500 lbs is no big deal, just make sure you change the tranny fluid more often
Believe it or not (and I know it's hard to believe), you actually learn to not need the rear view mirror. Get some of the little round stick on mirrors that go on your side mirrors and it will help a LOT with the blind spots on the sides.