On my ebony VX, I have a similar tint scheme to what Moncha and mbeach describe. It looks great but I cannot see anything at night. I can live without seeing out the back, but I have become frustrated with the frequent loss of my side mirrors in the darkness. Backing at night is a real problem as the backup lights do not illuminate enought to see anything in the side mirrors through the dark tint. I suggest that you do not get too carried away with tinting your door windows. You are lucky to have a silver VX since both mirror and dark could work. If mirror tinting would allow you to see out better, it might be a better choice. I once looked at a used silver VX that had heavy silver mirror tinted windows and a wide mirror eyebrow on the windshield. It also had a few chrome accents. It looked sharp to me. I may have a few pics on my home computer. If you want them, PM me with your email address.
Frank