Wow, I can't agree with Transio's comment on the Bilsteins. I found that they control the body motions very well, very comparably to the stock OEM shocks - FAR from the "go cart ride" Transio describes. And having had overly-soft shocks on my VX, I can tell you that going softer makes for an ugly, uncontrollable ride. Soft, yes, but that's no bargain when you're getting tossed left, right, and forward over ever undulation in the road. The Bilsteins gave my VX a softer and smoother ride than the 8-year old 145k mile Prelude SH that it replaced.
Transio, I wonder if there's a lot of difference between the actual performance (rather than the design performance) of our sets of shocks. Or maybe you don't have stock springs in your VX? I don't know how else to account for the discrepancy in our experiences with these Bilsteins.