I've recently had these installed: ADR Emotion wheels 20x8.5 on 275/45/20 Goodyear tires. Somewhat similar to your #2 pick. The offset was about 10mm and sticks out past the cladding about an inch which was perfect for me. IMO, they have a very clean and straightforward appearance without being too overwhelming on the overall look of the VX. It also matches quite nicely with the chrome trim accents (mirror covers, 3.5 emblem & SS grill kit). Also, the ride is very smooth and not as firm or rigid as I thought it would be going with a 20".
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