ok, cool. i know it is installed properly. i used a plug in type harness and connected that into the head unit so that the stock wiring harness is safe. the install went very well.

as for the trans fluid: the dealership checked the trans about 12,000 miles ago. i had them do the 30,000 mile service at about 40,000 since i could not find the service records from the previous owner and i wanted to play it safe.
at that time they said the trans fluid looked great and did not need changed until 60k. i even had a case of Amsoil Syn ATF in the back in case it needed done (it's now sitting in my garage awaiting the 60k mile mark and service).

thanks for the info/advice Maugan.

i'll keep you guys posted on what they find out about the trans and the oil consumption.