Let her know firstly its theraputic (for you), secondly it demands the care cause of the cost of having it in the first place, and thirdly you wanted to confirm the dishwasher is working to spec... and if she still can't relate tell her its a male thing-.... if she really, really doesn't get it we can start VX-A. Vehicross anonymous. Hi my name is xdfarrx and I have a problem..... I'm anal about my car and I stink of carnuba wax........