I don't know in what type of setting VX'ers generally have their meets and since I'm still fairly new to the area (2 yrs), this is just a suggestion...
Dave & Busters
White Flint Mall
Bethesda, MD
Figure since we're tryin' to do this as a DC/MD/VA Meet, then some place like that is mid-way from most of the furtherest points.
Let me know what you guys think about a location, then we can work on some dates & times.
Que