Today I received my new (slightly used) ABS control module:

https://www.ebay.com/itm/04-05-Dodge...53.m2749.l2649

I found this thread: http://www.vehicross.info/showthread...ht=Durango+abs

It was what convinced me to try it. It worked perfectly! I found several for the VX specifically that cost from ~$80 to as much as $180. This one is less than $40.

Ticking off the list, one item at a time ...