... I own a '99, I avoided the CD problem by replacing my stereo before ever knew a problem existed. Still have my stock system stored in a box, speakers and all, good as new.
As for the windows, I am old school, when something sticks or squeeks, I oil it. My windows are bind free.
As for the rear seats, my kids love the way they recline, and often take naps back there. I get back there myself on occasion and must say it is comfortable.
All in all, you will love your VX