ok I did the fan clutch replacement last night. $34 Ebay free shipping part. when the part came I was suprised to see it was made in the USA....... well that is good! right!
swapped out the part and as soon as I started it, like other people have said, I could hear the fan, more wind noise and the sound of the fan blades churning the air. so I drove it. really hot weather, AC cranked. let it idle with the AC on parked for about 10 mins. needle stayed bellow half way between cold and hot. towing will really the the test but I can say it is helping. the thing heats up really quickly so the thermostat is of course going to be replaced when I do the timing belt.
Well that is my update. I am not saying that is everyones problem, or an ebay part will fix it. I am just saying that is what fixed my issue. for now.
here is the link so the part.
http://www.ebay.com/itm/290943130556...#ht_1163wt_943