It takes a lot for someone to make through the spam check... I get several mails a week about how someone is getting picked off by the system. Usually, just a better user name choice solves the problem.. heavy d doesn't qualify by the standards as a spammer. That said....
heady d, welcome to the site, I'm sorry things got off to a rough start but, this is a very protective family that you just joined and especially with a male dominated population, feathers can get ruffled pretty easily.. I'm sure you will find a mass of good info as well as good folks. Your introduction was a little trolly, but I digress and apologize for the reactions
Again, welcome!!
Scott