Hi Sue,
the LCA has to be replaced, no option if you want to have a safe vehicle to drive. The fact it hasn't failed yet is okay to show reserve capacity, but the cracks and additional stress in that arm will lead to eventual failure.
As far as the frame part goes, it does not look damaged in the photos, so I would ask your mechanic to point out the damage, and compare it to the other side.
I would also jack the VX up and take both front wheels off. Then take photos of that frame part from outside the wheel well looking straight in.
The force caused by the rock looks like it has gone upwards and to the rear. So the frame part could be bent to the rear and we would not see it in the photos you have taken.
I am fairly sure a new LCA and bushes, and wheel alignment will have you happy again.
PK