Omega - I did finally get mine wired the way I want it, this is how it works now:
key out of ignition, second press of button on remote opens the hatch. Key in or out, but car not running - door unlock button on doors opens the hatch. All the time, button in glove box opens hatch. I faxed the diagram to someone (Can't remeber who) and they posted it for me in the thread where we were discussing this. Let me know if you can't find it on here, and I'll find it or fax the diagram to you. Good Luck!
I just checked back - it was YOU I sent the diagram to! I have great memory, but damn it's SHORT!Did you not get yours to work this way? Let me know if I can help!