Mr. Templar - that relay is actually on the right (passenger side) of the car behind the kick panel under the dash. There's a hole into the inner fender, and it's a round thing that looks like a turn signal flasher unit. Mine was wrapped in a grey foam material. It's the only one in that hole. The CD manual wiring diagram shows that piece as being behind the driver's kick panel, but it's not - at least not on mine! (a 2001)