I can do the 3rd or the 4th as of right now.

But I will not be able to go to James baird park
I just did the mapquest and it is nearly three hours from my house!
I am open to meeting in NJ, NY or Pa. - but that is really far away for anyone that lives in Central or South NJ as well as anyone from PA that is South. Probably Long Island people as well.
That would also rule out people from further South as well I would think.

Any other options/suggestions?