I think this is your main problem from the start, and mucking about with the TOD wiring has now introduced another problem.
I suggest you put the TOD wiring back exactly as if was, and get your tye replaced.
Just for interest sake, what is the size difference between the 3 tyres, and the spare??
These TOD systems have been known to play up just because tyre pressure is down a little bit on one wheel. With a different OD tyre, all hell breaks loose.
Good luck.
Oh - and welcome to the forum.
PK