Regarding the tires, I'm in the same place as you - wanting a mean enough looking tire while not going overboard in terms of loss of highway safety, performance and yes, even road noise and ride comfort.

I selected the Nitto Terra Grapplers, as they seemed to offer the blend of looks and performance I was after. The overwhelming majority of reviews I've read from every source - including here, Tire Rack, et al. - are very positive.

As for my own opinion, well... I have yet to get them mounted due to delays at the shop. So as much as I'm pissed that we've had virtually ZERO snow here in the tri-state area, I'm also thankful.

-V