Angeno,sorry but what you're trying to accomplish is just not possible.
As you said the VX ride is harsh,it was built to be like that and sorry,but cutting the bump stops wouldn't help that much at all.
Few steps that will help to make the ride a bit more tolerable is changing your shocks.but again,the problem is not the VX's ride,is the roads with soo MANY pothholes,bumps and uneven streets.
The amount of these untreated roads is just so ridiculous,last year i bent one of my 20" rims on queens boulevard. I don't have the stock shocks,i got the rancho 5000 series which helps a lot,but again,every inch you drive by is just pothholes,bumps destroyed roads and driving @ 30-40 MPH is all but a pleasant situation.
The cities would pay million of $$$ to private companies to install redlight cameras,but wouldn't spent a cent on the roads,highways and streets to avoid you spending thousands of $$ in mods to improve your vehicules' ride.
The VX wasn't design to provide a comfort ride.
Dakar was just the begining.