I agree. My comment was merely to put the size of the foreign aid budget in perspective and mention that we do gain advantages from that investment. Reasonable people can disagree about whether those things are worth the money, and how big or small the amount should be.
No I could not tell that you were being sarcastic. It looked like you were pretty convinced that the crime rate reductions were a direct result of the prison population. Any hoo, I suspect we could take a tiny fraction of the money we flush down the toilet on the drug war and put that towards treatment and we would be way better off as a society.
But I don't know what you mean, at least not all the time. I will simply take your word for it on the gay thing, with the caveat that having a friend in minority x does not in any way mean that you don't have irrational and unfair judgements about group x. As a comedic example, Archie Bunker was unquestionably a bigot, and he had minority friends. (No I am not calling you Archie Bunker or a bigot, just making a point about the way people try to inoculate themselves against criticism while simultaniously making outlandish statements). But for the ethnic minorities and the poor in general: no I am not at all convinced by your after the fact assertions on this matter. It really does seam like you think of them as slightly less than human.