Woo hoo! I think that did it!
I tinned the tip - most bled off so maybe that's due to being a cheap iron. Then I melted a drop of solder directly to the tip and put it on the underside of my wires. After that, while keeping the iron on the underside of the wires, touching the solder on top FINALLY allowed it to bleed down through the strands.
Thank you - after several more practice runs, I think I'll feel confident enough to tackle my real project upside down under the VX. I see what you're saying about the shrink wrap, too - wow is that ever sensitive and shrinky!![]()