It was not a criticism at all, just an observation. I can't even imagine how hard it would be to learn a new language that must be used everyday, both oral and written, so I give you much respect for trying!
Marlin- I agree, it sure could go the other way, but thought it would be worth a try for sympathy (and I'm an eternal optimist anyway).
Deermagnet...as usual, excellent ideas! I agree, she doesn't "seem" the type, maybe she's just a flake and forgot to send it,...ya know how those creative artsy types are....
It's a tough situation for sure, hope it works out.