All you young'ns are showing your age & experience, or lack thereof...

The worthwhile qualities in a significant other, or anyone for that matter, can't be seen with the naked eye, & have far more longevity than those of mere physical attraction...

Perhaps you've heard of a few of these...

Loyalty
Honesty
Credibility
Humility
Compassion
Kindness
Caring
Trustworthiness
Wisdom
Patience
Understanding
Integrity

Just to name a few......

Oh yeah, if you find someone with all those qualities, & he or she will strap your VX in the mud, & wash it off when you get home...put a ring on it...