well...interesting responses...
pretty much seems like all three are good choices, no one seems to stand out above the rest in particular...
1. this is going to be a daily driver/boat towing rig....hence the reasoning for a large truck (not a huge boat, but i dont wanna feel like the boat is controlling the vehicle)
i dont wanna be driving my VX as a daily driver anymore...i just plainly dont trust it enough.
2. im stuck on diesel because i like the fact that as you add money to the motor to get more power...you also get more mileage 
and i like the fact that i can tow anything necessary (VX trail rig, or a boat)
3. the tundra is also a great option, and have considered it if it were more affordable...
im looking at 2000-2006 vehicles BTW...so that kinda puts out the new tundra
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