Thanks guys for chiming in. I think ill take gasmask's advice and do the tranny this saturday and the diffs then or tonight.
I think i only have questions becuase at about 10pm last night I thought I would head to the local superstore to pick up the goods so I could right to it after work today and found ONE type of gear oil with something like 75w...and it was valuecraft.
Questions still
1. The tranny and TOD require ATF? All the same type? How many quarts to be safe? What is the best brand?
2. The rear and front diffs take different type of oil? Ill go syn so no need of the lsd right?
3. Is there not a seperate gasket for the adapter pan and the pan that holds the drian plug. Or am I just lost here?