YOU!!! are the man.. thanks yo i hadn't thought of the fuse.
it was the driver side rear. Wow... so if i catch a flat in the rear i gotta take off two wheels... well that's some fine print for ya lol. " Incidently, if one of your rear tire should go flat, you'll have to remove it but you cannot use the spare given... you'll have to remove one of the front tires and switch it to the back and place the spare up front. But we're only supplying you with one jack. enjoy".
So basically, I'd have to take the flat off and put the spare on. Then take a front wheel off and put the flat there. and then take off the spare and put the front tire there. and then take off the flat... again and put the spare there- up front. Wow.