the fpr replacement was pretty easy.. im not sure what relay you are talking about... but the black box comes off with two bolts one on the side and one facing the firewall.. there is a fantastic write up on here somewhere, if you cant find it i think i have a pdf version of it on my computer... also try sending a pm to circmand.. i think last i heard he had the paper version of the write up and the modified allen wrench that makes things much easier